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Why Pre-Arrange?
What steps are involved?
What if I move?
Things that must be done on the Most
Difficult Day of Your Life.
Approximately
seven million Americans have prearranged their funeral with
a funeral home. This is because more and more people are recognizing
that planning a funeral in advance demonstrates love and consideration
toward their family members. It is a thoughtful decision that
reduces the stress of indecision and uncertainty when a death
occurs.
The
planning process is something that has been a part of our daily
lives forever. We purchase fire insurance for our home for the
possible event of a fire; we purchase auto insurance for the
possible event of an accident; doesn't it make sense to plan
for the one event that is certain to happen?
McLaughlin
Dello Russo's Advance Planning division gives you the opportunity
to make your choices with the freedom from the usual urgencies
that are created when a death occurs. Advance planning makes
good sense, and is an economically sound decision. For additional
information, you may always call at 781-933-0083.
To begin the process of Pre-Planning Click Here
Why do families prearrange?
There
are many reasons families prearrange, including:
- To
give yourself time to think about certain aspects of the service
without having to make immediate decisions
- Make
sure your preferences for the type of funeral service you
desire are fulfilled
- Control
Costs. By paying for your funeral in advance, your assets
are protected and grow at competitive interest rates
- To
relieve your family members of the financial responsibility
of funeral expenses at the time of death
- To
ensure understanding of possible benefits at the time of death
for your survivors, such as social security, veteran benefits,
and life insurance claims
- To
avoid giving the surviving family members the 104 decisions
that must be made on the most difficult day of their life
(see this list below)
- Knowing
that your plans and confidences are with an over 100 year
old, family-owned business, providing the community with an
honest staff of professional, licensed funeral directors dedicated
to superior quality and value
Things that must be done on the Most Difficult
Day of Your Life
A.
SECURE VITAL STATISTICS (Required For Documents)
- Full
name, complete address, telephone number
- Date
of birth
- Place
of birth
- Marital
status
- Educational
attainment
- Citizenship
(US/Canadian/Other)
- Father's
name
- Father's
birthplace
- Mother's
maiden name
- Mother's
birthplace
- Social
Security Number
- Veteran's
Serial/Service Number
- Date
& place of service, date of discharge
- How
long at current residence/former residence(s)
- Occupation,
job title, nature of work & history
- Location
of workplace, telephone number
- Family
origin
B.
PAY SOME OR ALL OF THE FOLLOWING
- Estate
/ Inheritance taxes
- Funeral
expenses
- Purchase
of family burial estate, mausoleum crypt, cremation niche,
opening & closing costs
- Permanent
memorialization
- Monument/Marker
engraving charges
- Clergy
- Organist
and vocalist
- Florist
- Obituary
Fees
- Clothing
for burial, entombment or cremation
- Long
distance telephone
- Food
for visiting relatives
- Transportation
costs
- Doctors
- Nurses
- Other
medical practitioners
- Ambulance
- Hospital/Nursing
Home
- Medications
& drugs
- Current
& urgent bills (mortgage/rent, taxes, installment payments,
etc.)
C.
COLLECT DOCUMENTS AND PAPERWORK
- Birth
certificate/legal proof of age
- Citizenship
papers
- Social
Security card or number
- Marriage
license
- Veteran's
discharge certificate
- Insurance
policies (life, health, accident, property, auto)
- Disability
claims
- Bank
books and listing of accounts
- Other
financial accounts
- Cemetery
deed or proof of ownership
- Auto
titles or bill of sale
- Income
tax returns, receipts & canceled checks
D.
DECIDE AND ARRANGE WITHIN A FEW HOURS
- Exact
location of burial/disposition and which space to open
- Location
of service
- Service
type (religious, fraternal, military)
- Time
for visitation and funeral service
- Arrange
for special religious services
- Provide
information for eulogy
- Determine
if casket is open or closed
- Burial
Vault
- Provide
vital statistics about deceased for newspaper
- Clothing
and jewelry for deceased
- Selection
of scripture & readings (poems etc.)
- Selection
of clergy
- Funeral
Home preference
- Marking
of grave (either temporary or permanent)
- Charitable
contributions for memorials in memory of deceased
- Register
book, memorial/prayer cards
- Select
Pallbearers
- Select
floral arrangements
- Musical
selections
- Select
Organist/Vocalist
- Clothing
for you & minor children
- Decide
who will look after minor children/pets
- House
cleaning
- Extra
chairs
- Decide
if transportation is needed for family & guests, including
funeral procession lineup
- Reviewing
& signing all paperwork
- Answering
innumerable phone calls, messages and letters
- Necessary
meetings with funeral director, lawyer, clergy, cemetery,
etc.
- Arrange
lodging for out-of-town guests
- Acknowledging
those who help in a special way (contributors of flowers,
food, donations, etc.)
- Order
certified copies of death certificate
- Items
for memento display
- Review
deceased's will regarding special wishes
E.
PLAN TO NOTIFY AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
- All
relatives
- All
friends
- Minister
and church
- Funeral
director
- Pallbearers
- Cemetery
- Doctor
- Employer
of deceased
- Employers
of relatives not going to work
- Organist,
other musicians & vocalists
- Newspapers
regarding notices
- Social
Security Administration
- Veterans
Administration
- Insurance
agents
- Religious,
fraternal, civic organizations & unions
- Attorney,
accountant, financial planner & executor of estate
- Credit
card companies
What steps are involved in prearrangement?
Our
Advance Planning Professionals will explain your options and
guide you in establishing your own plans. You should find the
advice of your family, clergy, and funeral director especially
helpful when considering your options. We will record all your
wishes and vital information, as well as assist in gathering
documents to keep at the funeral home.
After
deciding the details for the funeral, you can select a casket,
burial vault, or any other merchandise you may desire for the
services.
Our
funeral home can even provide you the opportunity to make selections
and set aside funds for flowers, the funeral escort to the cemetery,
custom memorial folders and acknowledgments, catered meals for
after the ceremony, or airline tickets for family or friends
flying in for the funeral. Many will even prepay the opening
and closing of the grave/crypt for the cemetery.
What If I move out of town?
If
you should relocate to another city after prearranging, McLaughlin
Dello Russo will transfer prearrangement to the funeral home
of your choice.
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